04 Aug Polly Dunten Back Home

Polly and her daughters.

Polly Dunten is home, after undergoing surgery last Monday to remove a brain tumor. She spent two more days than expected at the Cleveland Clinic, but on Saturday she made the three-hour trip back to Findlay, Ohio. Her husband, Darwin, pastor of First UB church in Findlay, sent me this note yesterday (and there’s more on Polly’s blog).

Currently, Polly is resting at home. She has vertigo very bad and has double vision. In the near future, Polly will have to meet with an optical neurologist. She will also have physical therapy in the next few weeks. Currently, she is using a walker and a wheelchair to get around. The doctor stated that Polly will be out of commission for at least two months.

Bishop, I cannot thank the UB church enough for the support we received during the past month.  We were contacted by individuals from all over the world. Brooks Fetters also contacted us (he had a surgery similar to this 14 years ago). He spent an hour and a half on the phone with Polly and really helped her prepare for this surgery. We received notes of encouragement from pastors who went through much worse situations with their wives in recent years than what I went through. I know it was tough for them, but it was encouraging.

God was really with us. Scriptures really came to life during this past week. I am reminded of Romans 8:25-27 and the intercession of the Holy Spirit; the power of holding up the leader as seen by Moses, Aaron, and Hur; and the power of intercessory prayer when the individual is so weak to continue.

Last Sunday, we had an anointing service for Polly following church. Polly and I talked on the way to Cleveland and we both had the same reaction. We were so emotionally exhausted that we were numb during the service. It was the church that held us up. Not only our church but the UB church.

We also learned the importance of worship. We continued to listen to worship songs during this time. That was extremely comforting and uplifting.

Thank you and the church for your support. We have seen God work. We have seen the grace and mercy of God this past week. I am thankful and I praise the Lord.

We were prepared to praise the Lord regardless of the outcome. We know that God is using this situation for his glory. We have already seen good as a result. We are thankful for the outcome and we are thankful to you the church and the Lord.

01 Aug Our Ordained Lieutenant Colonel

Jim Ellifritt (right) is an ordained United Brethren minister in Washington, who formerly pastored our church in Vancouver, Wash., and served for many years as the Northwest Conference superintendent. He is also a lieutenant colonel in the Army reserves.

Jim reports that he was recently stationed at Fort Lewis, about 120 north of Vancouver, where he and his wife live. He writes:

Looks like I will be home once a week for a day and then Deb will try to come up weekly once I get my lodging squared away. She still prefers two years here verses a year in the desert. [Jim has served in Afghanistan while his son, Jim Jr., simultaneously served in Iraq.]

They have given me a Battalion Command at Fort Lewis. It is a rare opportunity commanding fulltime as a reservist, so I am honored. They have had there struggles here, so pray I am up to the task. We are responsible for training all the small units going to Iraq and Afghanistan and other locations as needed. The training is for 40 days straight and we work 365 days a year, so there is an intense management process.

I am looking around again for a church to plug into here or a Bible study. I have one to check out tonight.

Below is a list of humorous “Lessons I’ve Learned,” which Jim wrote in 2004 while serving in Afghanistan.

• After 15 days, you really need to bathe all parts of your body. No matter how many baby wipes and how much baby powder you use, your body sticks to itself! And you really smell!
• You can wash from head to toe with five pints of water.
• Being shot at is highly over-rated.
• A three-week-old newspaper is still better than no news.
• A cup of Starbucks coffee will make most days begin civilized.
• Eating with local nationals is a privilege and a challenge.
• Drinking Chi (tea) out of an unwashed cup probably won’t kill you. Same with eating off unwashed plates.
• Lots of places cook and eat food that is very different. Goat brains are really gross looking!
• Imodium or Kaopectate is your friend. After a week of the trots, a little pill makes you mighty happy!
• When the nearest church is three hours away through “Indian country,” it’s still worth the drive.
• Letters from home can be read over and over, and usually are.
• Phone calls home are worth whatever it costs.
• People can live on less than $40 per month.
• The finest soldiers in the world are the young men and women representing America.
• God is in charge no matter where you are in the world or what the dominant religion is.
• One wife is better than four even if your religion allows it (Islam allows 4).
• No woman looks good in a burka.
• Electricity is for the weak. But it sure is nice to have.
• Expensive health care is better than no health care at all.
• Girls should go to school.
• You really can spend $1,000,000 in seven months and still have barely scratched the surface when it comes to humanitarian aide.
• Sand buggers are just part of life. Get ready to dig daily.
• There is nothing like the smell of burning human fecal matter (we burn ours daily).
• Running at 5200 feet is a challenge physically.
• Afghans are the most hospitable people in the world.
• Knowing a few Phastoo words opens many doors.

29 Jul Polly Dunten’s Surgery

Polly Dunten underwent surgery Monday morning to remove a brain tumor. Her husband Darwin, pastor of First UB in Findlay, Ohio, sent me this report this morning.

The surgery is over and the Lord answered our prayers.

The surgeon feels he got all of the tumor either through surgery or by burning it out. There is nerve damage and we will see to what extent in the next few days. She currently has numbness on her left side, However, I saw the most beautiful almost smile I ever saw this evening before I left her. The tumor was pressing hard on the brain stem.  It also “thinned” the nerve. Similar to an electric wire that looses its insulation.

Thank you so much for praying for us. God is good and I am so thankful He allowed me to have my wife for a little longer.

We heard from people from around the world and around the United States.  We are humbled. I have written a more indepth statement on Polly’s blog.

25 Jul Polly Dunten’s Surgery

Polly Dunten’s surgery to remove a brain tumor will be Monday morning, July 28, at 7:15. It should take 4-5 hours, and she’ll be hospitalized probably until Thursday. There is a lot more information on Polly’s blog in a post earlier today. Perhaps your church could remember this ministerial couple in prayer on Sunday.

17 Jul God at Work in Findlay, Ohio

Darwin and Polly Dunten started a blog so people can keep up-to-date about Polly’s condition. She will undergo surgery on July 28 to remove a brain tumor. 

Darwin sent me this story, and gave me permission to pass it along. I think you’ll find it encouraging. 

Last Thursday (July 10), I went to the Hancock County Jail for the weekly Celebrate Recovery session we have with about 35 inmates. When I walked in, inmates started shouting, “Hey, there is Pastor “D.”  Unknown to me, the director of the church’s jail ministry told all the inmates what was happening in my family’s life. 

After the men’s Bible study, three inmates surrounded me to let me know that they were praying for Polly. It actually was more than that. They told me that they stop what they are doing and have the entire cell block pray for Polly every day. They said, “All of us pray for her every day.” 

During the women’s session, I explained to the women what was going on with my wife and then started the Bible study. Following the lesson, one female inmate approached me and started to cry. She then started to talk about her mother who died a few years ago from cancer and how she was angry with God. This anger is what prompted her drinking that brought her to  jail. This gave me an opportunity to share the eternal truth of God’s love and eternity.

This illness has also given my wife opportunity to share her faith with women that she works for. (She cleans houses.) It has also give me opportunity to share my faith with others in secular organizations that I am involved with. Regardless, we can see God working in many ways.

16 Jul Paul Hirschy’s Birthday

Today is the birthday of Bishop Emeritus Paul Hirschy. He is…well, we’re not sure how old. But you could send him birthday greetings. He would enjoy hearing from you. Paul now works as a development officer at Huntington University.