Let me recommend two excellent resources for your premarital and marriage counseling.
- Sacred Marriage, by Gary Thomas (Zondervan).
- Sacred Sex, by Tim Alan Gardner (Water Brook Press).
In my humble opinion, these are without a doubt the best books I have read on these subjects.They are very biblical in their approach. I used them as reference material whenever I preached a marriage series, but I also used them with the couples that came to me for their pre-marital counseling.
If you’ve been looking for good resources on these topics, you might want to take a look at these two books.